so, what do women actually want?

There could hardly be a young person who probably hasn’t heard of the phrase, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS, MEN ARE FROM MARS. Apart from the anatomy part, there are several things which set us apart from the opposite sex. Its not that I am in a mood to set out on a mission to help the distressed and needy. But yes, I am definitely going to lend out a sane piece of advice to some of the most distressed species on the world- MEN about some of the most incomprehensible section of society – WOMEN. So, what do women actually want? Some men might say loads of money and (chocolates), luxurious lifestyle and a guy who can pamper them every night and day. But I want you to read this story first and then draw conclusions about the fairer sex.

A husband wakes up at home with a huge hangover. He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees is a couple of aspirins and a glass of water on the side table. He sits down and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and ironed.. He looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order, spotless, clean. So is the rest of the house. He takes the aspirins and notices a note on the table. "Honey, breakfast is on the table, I left early to go grocery shopping. Love You!" Totally shocked with the note, he goes to the kitchen and sure enough there is a hot breakfast and the morning newspaper. His son is also at the table, eating. He asks, "Son, what happened last night?" His son says, "Well, you came home around 3 AM, drunk and delirious. Broke some crockery, puked in the hall, and gave yourself a black eye when you stumbled into the door” Confused, the man asks, "So, why is everything in order and so clean, and breakfast is on the table waiting for me? I should expect a big quarrel with her!" His son replies, "Oh, that! Mom dragged you to the bedroom, and when she tried to take your clothes and shoes off, you said LADY, LEAVE ME ALONE. I AM MARRIED!"

So, all you guys who think that their girls need loads of money, a six packed sex bomb and loads of romantic dinners and be showered with praises all the time. Surprise, surprise, you are so very wrong. The fact is she has probably checked you for all these things already and that’s primarily the reason why she is with you. All that you seriously need to give to her is an honest commitment. And everything else falls into place automatically. Like pieces in a puzzle.

If you are the kind of guy who agrees with me, I just have to say, your girl is lucky dude!!
But, if you are the kind of guy who thinks it is like impossible to give, then……..”kaake, aish kar…………par thodi kam”


Nipun | August 11, 2008 at 6:21 PM

only two words i have for this one...
Class Apart
rest everything will only undermine it..
keep up the good work..

Charnita | August 11, 2008 at 8:35 PM

heya:)! could feel from ur words that they belong to u...they echo that crazy/magical mixture of unexpected sanity and delirious insanity...
I enjoyed readin ur work...especially that little story...where things fall to place;@...

keep rokkin,

{BTW i hav also updated my blog...u might as well check dat out}

heena | August 11, 2008 at 9:54 PM

simply awesume sweetheart...a big pat on ur shoulder n mmmmuuuaaaahhh..
in dis article u will find d fucking truth f grl's lyf..
prianca u simply rocked sweetheart..
article was...mere pass toh words b nai hai..yaar
keep it up..

sam | August 11, 2008 at 11:11 PM

did i really inspired u for tis??.........awesome wrk...nthing to say more!!!

Happy | August 12, 2008 at 2:54 PM

No doubt! it is a good article. you really given the good story line to prove your point. but you forgot that every coin have two sides. Some girls do care for fealings and fath but mojority is looking for perfect stud and I think thats right, every one have rights to choose a perfect one.But if something happens wrong with them then they just dont have right to blame the whole men community.

And just like women, men also have feelings. they are not looking for just a perfect 36-24-36, they also looks for a kind heart and pure soul. they also want the faith from thier partner and for that they can do anything, no matter how they are and what they are.

I just want to say that men and women are two pillars, both have to support each other honestly.

Aneways keep doing your good work, you are spreading awarness, so i appritiate it. Wish you gud luck for that....keep Smiling


prianca | August 12, 2008 at 3:18 PM

@ happy
point noted!!!
thank you for your honest and useful insight.
thnx for reading my blog ;)

nd yeah, will defintely use your much valid argument in some of my future blogs.

Happy | August 12, 2008 at 7:50 PM

for prianca

We it’s a debatable topic since we born, so in future if you create a blog like this then I’ll be happier to take part in it. Do inform me about that.

And if you are able to save 10% relationships from these topics, then it’s a great achievement for you. Forget about the break-up between BF and GF, these days married couple are considering divorce just for some stupid miss under standings.

I wish you gud luck for your future posts.


ibest32 | August 15, 2008 at 12:26 PM

hey!!!prianca vry vl writen yr truely superb n i shld say quite original!!!!!!
i thnk u hve easily convyed d msh vch u wanted to so hats off to u n keep up d gud wrk!!!!

smriti | August 20, 2008 at 10:08 PM

hahaha...enjoyed readin it...nice one :)

VISALAM | August 21, 2008 at 8:31 PM

SPOT ON!!!:):)


prianca | August 21, 2008 at 8:44 PM

**bows** ;)

creation | August 31, 2008 at 6:32 PM

bull's eye!!

i had been thinking HOW to mk this stooopid guys yndrstand the one thing that gals need..

now.. all mgonna do is mail em each the URL of this post!! seriously!!

prianca | August 31, 2008 at 9:47 PM

@ creation
u're most welcum dear....;)

Harpreet | August 31, 2008 at 11:46 PM

@ creation

we guys also looks for the same faith from girls side.

So do frwd to all guys but dont forget the reverse side of it. I hope u will understand.

Simple | August 28, 2010 at 7:21 PM

I m quite impressed with the way you have written this and honestly it is suprising to believe it !!